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Canada Goose online Music journalists deigning themselves experts on mental health is not unlike any journalist deciding they’re an expert on the Weiner Abedin marriage. Abedin’s story is quickly boxed up because it reminds us of many before her. Tuesday’s press conference was hardly the first time we’ve seen a woman stand next to a man apologize for and/or defend scummy behavior, and it most certainly won’t be the last. But that doesn’t mean that Abedin is Jenny Sanford, Hillary Clinton, or any other woman who happens to have married a man that engages in extramarital activities. Treating her as though we not only know what happened to her and how it should affect her is arrogance on high. Canada Goose online

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buy canada goose jacket But then again, if you think Weiner is a monster for degrading his marriage, maybe you should avoid doing the same in gigantic block letters on the front cover of your tabloid buy canada goose jacket.

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